Ladies and gents, I've found the love of my life!

For some of you who may have been reading my blog posts, you may have found out how extremely single I am(a whole spec like me) but guys, it's my utmost pleasure to announce to you that I am in love. (This is the point where you notice I have a PhD in smiling and my dimples can prove that.)

For months now, I have been working on becoming the best version of myself and all my articles can show that. Now, I can proudly state that I am extremely far from being that person. I am still as petty as ever, I still won't leave my house until I know I'll be getting good food if I do, my stomach (Tomide) is still not flat and I still hold a first class upper degree in sleeping.

Now that's all said and done, you're probably wondering where the title of this article comes in. You impatient human! Well, I have fallen in love with Anjola. If I am going to be spending forever with her, why not love her?
Previously, everytime I heard or read something about self love, I always thought that was some narcissistic BS because I thought loving oneself meant only loving your present self. That's a part of it but I've realized that when you love something or someone you allow it or them grow, you push them to become the best version they can possibly be, you talk when that person upsets you and you work to make sure things are fine between you both. It turns out that you can actually do that with yourself. I know you're shocked.

                            Close your mouth before a fly enters
So how did I learn to love Anjola?
I learnt to love myself by accepting that I have flaws. I will never be perfect. I will make mistakes so many times but that's ok. I learnt to love myself by being grateful for all my amazing qualities. And they are quite numerous (o por). I learnt to look in the mirror and compliment myself instead of waiting for others to do that. I learnt to love myself by self reflecting and admitting my own faults. It was hard but it had to be done. I learnt to love myself by actively searching for ways to be better and actually working on myself.

 I also began to demand more from myself. In times past, I used to be okay with just being one of many. Now, I don't want that. I want to stand out and just be who I am. Not to sound like a motivational writer who writes a book about making money but is in search of money to publish the book but, I realized I could do so much more than I was currently doing and I could achieve a lot. Like a whole lot. So i began to task myself.

I'm not anywhere close to where I want to be but I can honestly tell you that I have so much fun with myself, so much respect for myself and I take care of myself. If that's not love, I honestly don't know what love is.
So now that we are in this self isolation period, how about using this time to get to know yourself and actually fall in love with the person you are? How about you actually self isolate and realize how amazing you are?

Stay safe guys, much love from this end!